How to Become a Good Loser?

Life is full of trouble and painstaking. We don’t always succeed in our lives. Since we are humans, we do fail or lose in our life missions. That’s a general fact which we all believe.

I woke up really tired today morning and felt like to be myself alone, thinking about how my life has been. Oh god! I have failed so much in my life. “I am damn loser”. Damn it!

But I never felt like I am a loser. Not even when I lose. Why is that? It’s because I have been always ready to lose. I believed in myself. I know who I am and never forgot that I am a human. Humans make mistake and they loses, sometimes.

First thing in you have to remember before you think of beginning any mission is to realize that this could be so wrong. So, make an evaluation of far this could go if it goes wrong. The mistake we all do is that we never want to believe the fact that we could lose. This fake hope makes us never build up a second plan which can be used as a backup plan in case if the mission fails.

You might not have understood precisely what I meant above. Let me tell you about something where this can be put into action. Well let’s say some one is flirting with you and you just came to know about it. You kinda started to like him/her. Him/her actions and words makes you really believes in him/her.

So what are you going to do? Believe in those stuffs and just let the opponent rule over you? If you do, that’s what I am talking about in here. Never thinking of what’s behind the scenes. Why can’t you think like that you have something (s)he wants and his/her plan is to get it from you. (s)he might be someone you trusts. I am not telling you to stop trusting others. What I am telling here is keep a limit of trust like 50% plus or minus 10.

I don’t know what took so long for me to realize this loser thing, but thank god that I finally realized it. I am not yet done with these stuffs. I will update this as I realize more about a good loser and how I became one of them. :D